FeralFront is run by volunteers and loses money each month. It exists solely for the people who want to be here and enjoy it. If FeralFront isn't the place for someone, that's absolutely fine. The internet is filled with forums, chat rooms, and all sorts of places to interact with others that folks can go and act in whatever fashion that community finds appropriate. Here, just being chill, being kind, and interacting in good faith with others is appropriate.
The staff have no time or effort to expend on people who want to be passive aggressive, stir up drama, or otherwise make things less enjoyable for others. Call me terrible, call me great, it's irrelevant. Folks can either just chill on FeralFront and enjoy the community, or they can leave.