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    [align=center][color=black][font=georgia]Well hey there! Obviously you've either clicked my siggy, or been searching the help den, but here you are! This is my advice thread. I will provide advice on role playing, how to be involved with threads, and other advice on life! Also, you should probably check out Mapleshade's thread as well, it was really helpful and interesting. Now, I will provide advice from all points of view. I've been told many times I'm good at advice, so I'm going to give this a shot! I've asked a couple of my guy and girl friends to help on the girl/guy advice page, so yeah, I hope this helps!



    On this thread, I will have advice on role playing, how to not be ignored, and some advice from guys to girls and girls to guys! My guy friends on this site is giving me a hand with the guys to girls things :)


    Enjoy!!!

    [color=black]Advice from girls to guys!!!


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    Here's some advice on girls dudes! If there's a certain girl you really like, then here's some advice on getting closer with her!
    Remember, is may not work on ALL girls, because we aren't all the same you know ;3..



    First of all, girls like to be complimented. But you need to be careful on how you compliment them. Say, there's self-confident girls who like being told their pretty. Then there's shy girls, who like to be told they're good at an activity, like art, reading, music, ect... There's sporty girls, who like being told they're better than some boys you know. And lastly, there's the girl who just likes the casual, "Thats a really cute hair-style, it suites you."


    DONT tell a girl something that could hurt her feelings. Don't compliment her on something stupid. Like, "Hey, I really like...uh...the way you scribbled out that word....yeah..." Try and see if there's anything she's done that she wants to be complimented on. Like, if she's tried a little harder with her hair. Or, she's wearing a new piece of jewellery. Then she'll be more confident about what you complimented! And it'll raise you a couple of points.



    Secondly, be social with her! Try and start with a simple conversation, then let it escalate into something more deep! Just a simple, 'Hey, how's it going?' will start you pretty well. Most importantly, LISTEN TO WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY! Don't just ask, then ignore! Be interested with her day. If she says, 'Its been awesome!' in a really happy tone, then ask her why it was so awesome. If she says, 'Eh, it's been....alright...' in a sort of sad tone, ask her why is wasn't so good. It's just these little things you gotta pick up on to get her attention.


    It's a good idea not to lay down a huge giant speech on how your day has been. Just give her a simple run down of it, the tops things that happened, that funny picture you saw, anything. And try to make her laugh or smile! Girls are interested when they laugh or smile. AND SMILE BACK! No serious poker faces! Girls like good sense of humours.



    Thirdly, if your becoming good friends, don't be a jerk when your around your mates! You want her to know that you can be cool around your friends and around her at the same time. A lot of guys that I have known can be so sweet, but then be so mean around their dudes. So, just be cool, and be yourself! Don't change yourself. And if she doesn't like you for you, go find another girl! This one doesn't deserve you, because I'm sure your amazing <3


    Lastly, try to find things you have in common! If there's things in common, there is heaps more to talk about. Say, you like the same soccer team. Bam! Instant conversation starter! It shows her that you guys likes the same things, and that means when she wants to go see that team play soccer and she wants a friend, you'll come to her mind first. It's simple! Ad don't forget to invite her places as well. Going out to the footy with some mates and their girlfriends? Invite her! Going to the movies? Invite her! Going to the fishing shop and skate shop to look at really boyish stuff? Invite her! (Wait.....don't do that.....)



    I really hope I helped you kick things off with that special girl. If there are any girl readers who want to add anything, feel free! And remember, this may not work on all girls! We don't all like the same stuff! Au Revoir!!!