The story of a normal girl and a FTM transsexual...

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    My girlfriend and I have been dating for three weeks. They've been great, and probably the best few weeks of my life. She accepts the fact that I'm transgender. We're happy together.


    The only problem is that I'm not out of the closet yet at school.


    We do hold hands in hallways when nobody's looking and whisper 'I love you' before we part ways when we go to our seperate classes. We're really close and act as if we were best friends around others, and even that raises a few eyebrows. A few days ago, someone in the one class we have together asked if we were 'dating'. We replied with a immediate no and it hurt. I hate the fact that I can't be who I really am around others.


    Any advice?

  • <3 That sounds really sweet! :3
    I would "come out", so to speak. This might be hard, & there are haters everywhere, but you'll be so much more comfortable being yourself! It's no good to feel like you need to pretend to be something you're not.
    :) Good luck!
    -`Totoro

  • [align=center][font=georgia][color=black][sub]I've tried to 'come out' before to my friends, but, since I joke around a lot with them about stuff, they didn't take me seriously. I think I'm going to ask my teachers to call me by my prefered name and use male pronouns when talking about me before I tell any of my classmates. (:


    Anyway, thanks for the help, Totoro! ^^

  • Glad to help!
    :)

  • Wow. Thats really sweet :')
    Advice?...
    Well, like Totoro said, you should, you know, 'come out' and tell your friends plain and simple. Me? I'm lesbian. I haven't told anyone but my girlfriend (obviously XD) And I know my story has nothing to do with yours but still. Point is, you should be braver and not as shy as me and get on with your lovely life, my friend. Love is love, no matter what gender x gender!

  • I'm a straight myself, but it's okay. Just follow other's advice. We ARE an any gender friendly site after all. Fluid, lesbian, trans, we accept them all. It's like AF-AM, white, Asian, Mexican, any race is accepted.

  • Screw the people that don't accept you.


    You love her.


    She loves you.


    It doesn't matter what genter you are. If people make fun of you after you 'come out' tell them, I can find love, I'd like to see your girl/boyfriend. Or, tell them that your friend Luxa'll come and kick their a**ess.

  • Thanks... I think? ^^""


    I know that I shouldn't care about what they say/think... but I'm the kind of person who constantly worries what people think about me. It's just who I am.


  • I myself hate pink and am more tom-boy-ish,so basically trans but not, know what I mean?