Mean Girl-HELP

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    So I go to school and a girl bully's me and talks about everyone behind their back. So it's gotten far that I don't walk to school anymore. It's gotten out of hand and my friends are too scared to stand up for me or themselves. I was the only one to confront her and it's just got bad. What should I do.

    I'd actually stand down and refuse to go to school. Say you'll take and do your schoolwork at home, but if you were an adult and being bullied at work {yes it happens} you'd have all the legal leverage in the world to do something about it.

    ˙·٠•●☮ ẘynnyelle ☮●•٠·˙ wrote:


    I'd actually stand down and refuse to go to school. Say you'll take and do your schoolwork at home, but if you were an adult and being bullied at work {yes it happens} you'd have all the legal leverage in the world to do something about it.

    . I Already did both of your guys ideas and my parents won't allow me to do the school thing and my mom is like there is nothing we can do just wAlk and ignore her.

    I'd just punch her in the mouth. I know violence doesn't solve anything, but taking abuse doesn't solve anything either. That and teachers at schools are totally useless.

    Adults need to help, for me it went on for two terms, i hated going to school and even stayed home once. I tried ignoring it, fighting back, threatning her, telling her to stop... But most of the girls in the class were against me. Try ignoring it, but if it goes on too long TELL A TEACHER YOU TRUST! Don't let it get bigger, or turn into physical violance. Or, try treating her nicely in return, apologise if you have done anything against her. If these dont work, Get Adult Help!

    Punch her in the face. Thats it, and they'll leave you alone. I was bullied for about, half a semester, got in a fight, and they stopped. They didn't realize i had a strong right hook(:
    ^
    I mean that(:


    Honestly, and this is my opinion, i would never tell an adult, unless it becomes physical. Because stupid as this sounds, that one action will stick with you for your school years, even when you enter highschool. And people care about that, or this wouldn't be an issue.


    And if your parents are against it, ust say she was being a bully,and start crying. I guarantee you won't get in trouble(:


    But really, sock her in the face, or stab her with a key0.o no, i don't recommend stabbing. I got stabbed with a pencil, and it hurt like hell-_-

    The best way is to bring it to someone high on the teacher hierarchy, maybe a counselor of a dean. My school if in NJ, which has passed strict anti-bullying laws, so teachers have to do something.


    I hope the same thing gets passed where you live, too. It saves people a lot of trouble.

    My little brother had something like this happen to him, exept it was on the bus.
    I am extremely proud of him for this.
    The kids were calling him names over and over and they would not stop. Kids that were exactly 6 years older than my brother (he was 5 at the time)
    My little brother turned around and stared them down, looked them right in the eyes and said: "if eather of you call me another name, I'm going to punch you in the face." he sat down and turned around again. One kid shut up then. The other thought he was kidding, and called him a dillweed. (not very creative for a ten year old)
    Without hesitation, my little 5 year old brother sat up, turned around, looked at him, and socked him hard on the side of his face.
    Those boys NEVER picked on him again. True story.
    Thy did have to call my dad, and my dad was a little dissapointed at first, but after my brother told the story to him, he was proud that he stood up for himself, when no one else would.
    My little brother is not particularly strong, but one blow to the face is sure to shut anyone up.


    I think whatever punishment your parents give you for hitting someone, it will be less than whatever hell that that girl is giving you. That boy, had a bruse on his face for a week and a half, a reminder to not mess with my bro.



    Make sure to warn her first though, or results might end up in suspension.
    Do whatever, I don't care. Cry in a corner and try to ignore her; fine. But in reality, bully's want someone to pick on that will take there sh*t. Don't be that person. Stand up for yourself. For me, for you, for everyone.z