• So I’m at my sisters, I have been here going on about a week now since she was having surgery. Well I was asked to come to look after my nephew (who’s one) , so I’m doing what I came here to do which is going great however not even ten minutes ago my sister blew up at me for not cleaning which I’ll admit I haven’t been. But when she tells me she will micromanage me if I wash the dishes it makes me not want to do anything. I know it’s a bad thing to say but it’s the truth, whenever she yells at me I ‘shut down’ and do things to calm my anxiety like I’m biting my tongue as I’m typing this. I just don’t know what to do I know I need to help out but she just makes it hard to