having a bit of an identity crisis.

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    For those who know the LGBTQ+ community, and gender identity issues, this post is kinda meant to seek you all out for help. I'm currently having issues with my identity. For the past year or two i had identified as A Transgender Female.But recently, for unknown reasons... everything broke down and i suddenly lost all sense of identity. i don't feel like i'm a cis-gendered male, But i don't feel like anything, i don't KNOW what feels like me. I'm just in a weird space and i need some help.

    Hello, I myself Identify as Genderfluid, though mostly agender. You could be feeling something like this. You might be on a lesser scale of genderfluidity and primarily identify as female, though at times, like know, you feel as if nothing defines you, either nonbinary or agender.

    I identified as Genderfluid as an excuse to determine my identity before, and i wouldn't doubt that it could be my situation. But i just don;t know for sure if that's me. I do know for sure a piece of me despises wholly my guy body, I know a piece of me is totally cool with existing in this body, but a piece of me isn't. And i know in the end i don;t want to be viewed as just male or female. And it causes all of this confusion in me about what's really... right. It';s so many intricate pieces and it... confuses me too much.

    I understand what you mean. For the longest time I just didn’t feel right in my body. At first I blamed it on my weight, but now I release it’s just not want I want it to be. I’s rather have a more androgynous body rather than the clearly feminine one I possess. As I said, 90% of the time I identify as agender, though at time I will feel more feminine or masculine at times so I use the term Genderfluid rather than just straight agender.

    Understandable. I know for sure i want certain more feminine features, especially in the face and doing with crtain other features, but at the same time i know i'm likely going to end up not going through with any procedures or hormones. Which makes me feel invalid, to say the least, with identifying as trans. I don;t think genderfluid fits me entirely though, as i'm nearly entirely dissociated from my masculine sides. This is something that i think is just going to be particularly hard for me to find.

    I think I know exactly what you're going through, but kind of the other way around. I wondered for a few months if I was transmale, as I never did express very femininely. After a while, I wondered if I was non-binary instead. For the longest time, I've been in this weird limbo, where I don't know where I identify, and I kind of stopped trying to figure it out. I landed at gender apathy, where people can call me anything they want, hell they can call me a dragon and I wouldn't care and wouldn't correct them. Part of me thinks this is correct, as I never did like to correct people when they called me "He," but "she" never felt wholly correct either, and tbh neither did "they." At this point, I think it has something to do with my mental state, or the other way around and my mental state has something to do with my gender identity. To put it briefly, I've had a hard time caring about anything lately.


    Anyways, sorry to ramble about my situation, but I thought it might help to hear from someone whose situation is somewhat similar. My identity came crashing down quite quickly after I discovered I wasn't hetero, either, so it was a very sudden and unexpected change for me, despite being in a group of friends entirely made up of lgbtqia+ people and immersing myself in lgbtqia+ media for quite some time before. That kind of sudden crash and uncertainty can be devastating, so I know where you're coming from. I hope you're doing okay.

    *whispers*

    i'm still not sure on my end, but i never felt right in my female body, but knew i'd never wanna change it to male

    i'm p sure i identify as non-binary bc there's days i just dont feel comfy or ok in my body at all, but also others where i love it ?

    i dont even know man


    sorry im not that helpful rip


    but ahh !!!