boy troubles. URGENT.

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  • [fancypost bgcolor=; bordercolor=transparent; borderwidth=; width: 300px; height: 300px; overflow:auto][justify][sub][ if this isn't the board that I shouldn't have posted this in, apologies. ]


    well, I have a situation. I am dating one guy, Guy A, not going out just simply dating and I like him, he is sweet and all - I don't get his humor most of the time. he is attractive, we have been seeing eachother for a few weeks but it is not compared to my high school friend and LONG time crush. Guy B, I have known him for four years and crushed on him for all four, he knew and I knew but nothing happened. now, I am out of hs, two years later I find his number and text him and there is so much tension sexual and he is sooo cute but he doesn't want a relationship. he cares for me a lot, but just doesn't want to take that step; I don't know who to actually choose because Guy B who I care for and love so much said he will commit later on.


    but, after spending so much time together and working all that tension out, he breaks out with, 'let's take it slow' and i'm confused because he was the one who wanted.. what he got. I just love guy b so much but I don't want my heart broken, he doesn't either - man, I feel sick just thinking about not being with him.


    we mesh so well, we understand eachother and ... it's perfect.


    what should I do, take my losses and go with guy a?

  • [sup] PUM THE ROMANCE EXPERT HAS ARRIVED


    ehee not really (▰˘◡˘▰)


    well matopey wopey to be honest I say trust your gut.. It leads you to many wonderful things.
    If you really like this guy and trust him than go for It I say! If he's sweet, funny, and cute take the shot! Those types of guys are hard to come by!

  • I'm officially coming to Pum for relationship advice now


    Well, dear, I have to agree with what has been said. Go with what your heart tells you, but I have one question. Does guy A make you happy when he's around?

  • Hm... sounds to me like guy B is your man. Maybe he doesn't want to rush into things to avoid hurting you or stressing you out. Just ride it out. I'm sure you'll be fine :)

  • Take it slow for now
    But wait until the sparks really fly
    And then try it out and maybe it will all work out cx