Boy troubles

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    Hey people of earth and mars. I'm having a lot of trouble with guys. I've really like (loved?) this guy for two years (as of February). Let's call him guy 1. Now, I started a new school this year, where my best friend and my new friend who is also considered my best friend, and I met this other guy. Guy 2. My friends don't really talk about guys, and I don't either because it makes me sound petty and like those popular girls I pride myself in disliking.
    Guy 1 is a popular, but he's nice to everyone and really funny. Sometimes he's a bad boy. He gets detention and gets grounded a lot. His dad is my dads best friend. We go to the same church so I only see him twice a week. He's cute but I don't really care. He doesn't know about my mad Harry Potter obsession, and I'm sure he wouldn't understand it. I really really like him though. He's nice, and confident, and funny. He's pretty smart even though he won't admit it.
    Guy 2 is in my science class and he sits with my friend during lunch. He's really funny, he has my same views on life (besides church which I don't know about), he doesn't call me goth like the rest of the school (I'm not.), and he makes a point to talk to me a lot. My "friend" warned me against him. She said her cousin dated him and he's a perv, but he's never acted like that around me.
    I'm 13 and really confused. I hate liking to guys at once, and I think I might like Guy 2 now, but idk how to tell my friends. I'm not really ready to date yet... maybe next year. Anyway, I'm not pretty, I'm really dorky, and I'm one of the smartest kids in school. Neither Guys are really "smart" but Idc.


    If anyone bothered to read this and has an opinion on a guy or how to talk to my friends please answer.

    Sometimes friends will lie too get you to do or not do something. Like one of my friends told me that a guy in my school hates the teacher that's my fav and one of my other friends told me that she is his favorite too and the next day for her b-day he gave the teacher flowers and a hand made birthday card

    Dating advice from a twelve year old coming right up. :P



    Don't get into any serious relationship with either of them yet. They can still both be your friends, right? Thirteen does seem like too young, and you don't want to rush into these things.


    In my opinion, being friends with boys is better than dating them, anyway. Friends last longer and cause less arguments. well aside from at my school. you don't wanna know how idiotic our two "groups" can be round eachother. ;w;

    12! I'm 11 and my classmates say there boyfriend and girlfriend alll the time! I agree with you there, boys are better being friends with then dateing

    Hey it's no problem. I'm barely 13. None of my friends date but a lot of kids at my school do. I don't plan on having a relationship until high school really. I was just kinda confused and I hated it. Thank you guys SO much!!!

    Stubby, happened upon this. I dunno if you wanted me to find it, but I did. So, I know BOTH of the guys that you're talking bout. Don't be afraid to tell me bout this. I wouldn't laugh, I wouldn't say that you're crazy. Guy number two is great. He's not a perv, the girl who warned you against him (I know who it is) is an arrogant popular who is apparently stupid too. {Don't tell her I said that.} Guy number one is great as well. I don't know him, but I know his name and you tell me about him too. You're crazy bout him, at least, from what I know of it. Guy number two is great from how I know him. He's friendly, smart, and funny (more or less). This is your choice and I won't interfere with it, it's yours. Just want you to know that I'm always here for you.

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    Thanks Alpha. I wasn't to worried about you... just Brighteyes really. And Spot. I wasn't sure if it'd be awkward since he's like... your friend... I dunno. He's really cool though. But yeah. Funny how we keep finding this awkwardly personal stuff that relates to each other but we never told each other about... Lol. Thanks though, really. I swear I won't like go on about him or anything. Just clearing my mind.

    Isn't it? I feel really weird just looking 'round the site and finding this! And it wouldn't bother me if you did talk bout him. It's easy to make you veer of topic. Way too easy.

    Hahaha but please don;t make me argue with you Alpha. HEY! Why don;t YOU tell Brighteyes? If you have an opinion on either of them just tell me.

    Would Brighteyes listen to me without running off to ask you? And it's too easy to do that too! We argue over all opinions. About them, Guy number one seems fine, but I know Guy number two. He sits at my table! So, he's like I said before. His jokes are so terrible sometimes that you HAVE to laugh at them. They suck.

    Hahahahahaha okay. And yeah, she will run. Thats why I hate telling her these things. I told her about my crush-a-versary and that I might love Guy 1 and she was getting kinda mad at me almost... I hate the look of repulsion and despair I get from her.

    Yeah, but I will tell her if you want me to! And she (jokingly, I think) told you to go die in a hole when I said that you said hi. I'm almost sure that she was joking. Almost... ;D I'm sure that she didn't mean it. Most likely Brighteyes was sad that she hadn't seen you all day.

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    Aw..... Yeah... if you wanna tell her. I think she should know for sure... I missed her a lot too. It's weird not being around her all day... I didn't smile nearly as much ;(

    Hahahahahaha! She was quite vicious at that moment, but it faded{?}.

    I'm just not sure if her vicious attitude ever truly fades! :D I mean, she's awesome! Only exploding in the most random times!

    ay; not all of us populars are mean!
    yes, prissy, but not all mean. just most.

    x3

    what ive done is befriended both and gotten to know their personalities better. then i decided before actually choosing a bf.