does my dad hate me? (not an rp. this is real.)

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    no matter what i do i always end up doing something wrong in my dads eyes. he keeps saying that i'm killing him by not doing what he says to his personal liking. every time my parents get into an argument (which happens a lot by the way) both me and my brother end up being chewed out by him. asking if we are happy now that my mom is pissed off at him. i admit that we aren't the most active kids in the world but we still do our best to make him happy. every time he comes near me after a fight i get the feeling that he's going to hurt or even kill me. and its gotten out of hand this time when i thought about hurting myself with a knife. i don't hate my dad and i'm sure he doesn't hate me either. but lately i'm starting to think i do. i need advise on this.

    I know what you have gone through, my mom hasbeen divorced once already and is getting anotherone right now, i sometimes feel like its my fault. I suggest you try talking to your mom, asking her if she is really happy, most likely she is staying for you and your brother, trust me.

    Its a pleasure, i know how you feel, wanting help, but i guess i was too scared to ask, i appreciate your brevery.

    the thing that made me do it was when i started thinking about hurting myself. that's when i knew i needed help.

    Hurting ones self is never the answer, its a good thingyou got help when you did

    Ask her if she is alright, like try to work her into her saying if she is happy or not.

    If he ever really hurts either of you, go to the police. Or at least tell someone, it's called child abuse. It's not right to harm anyone, close to you or not.

    Ok, hm.... I saw this, but I think I can somewhat help. I think I can use my situation to fix yours.


    1. (I want to say kid, but I'm sure you're my age) Just gonna say, I don't like your situation that much on the whole dad area. I mean, not to really add to this, my dad was an *sshole and then some and then more, but I still love him. I'm not sure what my dad would have thought of me as 15, but I know parents. They hate teenage years because we try to do things to discover ourselves, but they don't like that.


    To end the first one, I have a question. What has your dad exactly 'done' to you?


    I will add more later, but for now this, I hope, will help.

    well no. he hasn't actually hurt me. he just gets all up in my face and makes me think he's going to. he has threatened me once though.

    Ok thats horrible , does your mom know hendoes this? If not, tell her.

    no she does know. and when she's close enough to hear she'll intervene. i don't want to say my dads a bad guy. this is all just when he's mad.

    well, I know what you're saying. My mom does that too. When I get time, I'll tell you more.


    Added to this... Don't hurt yourself unless it's that rough. I'm emo and do actually be emo. Cutting is used to, well reasons change for others. Just, from what I know, don't do it.

    You should never let anybody ( even your father ) make you feel like cr*p its not a good feeling.. trust me I know, sometimes my dad makes me feel like that too. You just have to keep in mind that hes going through things that are horrible as well- hes probably not trying to make you feel the way you do, you just have to out and out tell him how you feel. If you don't then how is he ever going to fix it?